Dad ready for second cataract surgery.

Good news of day: Dad is cleared for cataract surgery for his second eye.  The first eye surgery went well.  Dad's eyesight is getting to be a real nuisance for him, so this is good news.

It has been a big positive that Affordable Home Care has been driving Mom to visit Dad.  That has made things much easier on me.

Dad finished with chemotherapy. Estimated 3 weeks till comes home, and 6 months till leaves for eternal home.

The nursing home stay is going well for Dad.
The nursing home rehab is estimating that Dad will be able to come home in October.  He has already greatly improved.
Dad decided he cannot take chemotherapy anymore.
The doctor is estimating that Dad has less than 7 months to live, perhaps 6, perhaps less.
Mom, Dad and I all seem to be taking it well, in large part because we have been halfway expecting this for a while.

Dad moving to Church of Christ Care Center.

The plan is that Dad will move to Church of Christ Care Center at 5pm by ambulance from the hospital today.

I am praising God for this.

Dad going to nursing home; pausing chemotherapy

As heard before, due to the payment methods and extreme costs, nursing homes can not accept patients undergoing chemotherapy and the side-effects they bring.

So Dad will be pausing chemotherapy while he is placed in a nursing home.

The hope is that Dad will regain enough strength in the nursing home to be returned home.  At that point the chemotherapy should be able to restart.

So now back to the point of praying that Dad gets a good nursing home, and Mom can manage home alone and getting to and from visiting Dad without too much difficulty.

Dad going to nursing home; unclear if continuing chemotherapy

Dad is recovering ok in hospital,  but still throwing up some on a liquid diet.
Due to his not being able to handle chemotherapy while living at home, he is going to be moved to a nursing home.
It is unclear if he will be able to continue chemotherapy from the nursing home, or the focus will switch to hospice.  Part of the decision will be what the health insurance will cover.   I hope to learn more Tuesday.
Dad is unsure if he will ever come to live at home again.  Mom seemed to take it well.
I think they both are being overly pessimistic at this point.   Hopefully I will find out more later...

Dad doing better in hospital, but still vomiting

Dad looked and sounded much better this afternoon.

His cancer doctor mentioned the possibility (likelihood?) of him being sent to a nursing home / rehab center after getting out of the hospital.  Both Mom and Dad are saddened by that idea, but seem to be accepting of it.  Dad's main concern is confirming if it would be covered by their health insurance.  A secondary hope is to get to a desirable place.

Dad was put on a liquid diet, due to his still vomiting.  Even with a liquid meal, he still had trouble keeping food down.

Dad dehydrated enough that admitted to hospital.

Dad was weak again today.   This late morning he drank some water, and a nutrition drink.   A bit later I asked him to try some more water.   He said he felt nauseous, but I encouraged him to try a bit more.   He did,  and a bit later he thew up.   So much for getting the nutrition drink and pills he had earlier.

The raised toilet seat had been helping a lot.   The main challenge in that area has been that Dad has developed painful hemorrhoids.

Eventually,  we went to the chemo doctor,  and doctor felt the dehydration was serious enough to admit Dad to the hospital.   So Dad is at St. John South Macomb hospital again.